When people think of weddings, they usually think of big affairs, with many guests. The traditional wedding is amazing, and sharing a special day with family and friends, and having a big party is a time-honored tradition. But, what if you and your fiancé(e) are introverted and don’t like the thought of being in front of a lot of people, what if you want the experience of a wedding, but not with all of the other pressures that go along with it? What if you love to travel and can imagine sharing your words of love, just the two of you in a beautiful place? What if you’re not in your 20s anymore, and feel like, perhaps in mid-life, that a wedding is only for younger people? Elopements are a truly intimate and meaningful way to celebrate your love story. As a Paris elopement photographer, I was thrilled to be contacted by this lovely couple, who wanted to celebrate their elopement in Paris, and have beautiful photos to remember their special day.
It All Started with a Video Call
As an elopement photographer in Paris, I love to meet my potential clients on a video call, to get a feel for their personalities, what they’re dreaming of, and how I can help them achieve that dream. Whether it’s Paris, Provence, the French Riviera, or somewhere else in Europe, my expertise helping plan and photograph elopements allows me to really ask probing questions to ensure my couples’ elopement day is everything they dreamed of.
Tamera and Jeremy were a dynamic couple on the video call, and I loved them from the start. They live in Portland, Oregon, Tamera works in the fitness industry and Jeremy in the HR industry. They are active, and fun, and I learned we shared a love of running. This beautiful couple planned to come to Europe, Tamera was going to run in the Edinburgh, Scotland marathon, and afterward, they’d come to Paris for what they hoped would be a beautiful elopement, celebrating their love story.
They met two years ago and fell in love quickly. Both having had past relationships and each having grown children, they found love in “mid-life”, which for many is a surprise. Our society seems to place value on the young, and when you get older, all of the fun stuff goes out the window. Getting married in your 50s? Having a wedding in your 50s? To a lot of people in this generation, or even for couples in their 30s and 40s, the big wedding just doesn’t feel right. I totally understood what Tamera and Jeremy were looking for and I could not wait to meet them.
Preparing Ahead of Time
When you elope, there are a lot of worries, not as many as if you were having a big event, but there are still worries for a lot of people, such as:
- Can we be legally married in France?
- What about having an officiant, is that possible?
- What if we’d like flowers?
- How about music?
- Is it possible to have a professional makeup artist?
- Where could we have our ceremony?
- Could we also have a wedding photo session?
The good news is, with the proper help by your side, everything is possible! You cannot be legally married in France without establishing residency, so most couples get married in their home countries at a courthouse to take care of the legalities, and their elopement in France is symbolic and so special.
There are very good officiants and celebrants in Paris, flowers can be arranged, musicians too, and most couples like an outdoor ceremony with a pretty view. However, some couples like to privatize a space, so that is possible as well. As far as having a wedding photo session to capture the memories of the day, absolutely!
Elopements should be as little stress as possible, and as an elopement photographer, I help my couples with basic planning, too. Tamera and Jeremy decided they’d like an officiant, so I connected them with a wonderful officiant, as well as a makeup artist. They decided to bring their own music on a Bluetooth speaker, and we discussed locations in Paris. The couple decided to stay in Montmartre, which is on a high hill with an unreal view over the city. It’s so popular with tourists, that we decided to start at sunrise.
I worked on a time line for Tamera and Jeremy, we’d meet at their hotel just before sunrise, do a beautiful wedding photoshoot in Montmartre before the officiant arrived around 7:00 am, and then we’d have a beautiful ceremony with a stunning view. After the ceremony, we’d take a taxi to the Eiffel Tower, and finish up the morning with cute cafe stop. It all sounded wonderful and I could not wait to meet them!
The Wedding Day – Act I
One thing to keep in mind if you’re visiting Paris, always have an umbrella handy. Summer in Paris isn’t a sure thing, and this particular year, the entire month of May was rainy as can be, and June started the same. By some stroke of luck, the skies cleared for Tamera and Jeremy’s wedding day. I arrived to their hotel to greet them at 5:30 am, as they were putting the finishing touches on their wedding outfits. Jeremy was handsome in his gray suit, and Tamera was stunning! Her makeup had been professionally applied, her hair so beautiful, and she wore the cutest dress, a white dress which gave vintage vibes. She paired her dress with some cute heels, and I felt for most of the morning that I was in the presence of this very elegant doll, and also like we were enacting Paris scenes from The Notebook, that is, if that movie based on the book by Nicholas Sparks had been filmed in Paris!
Simply stunning and friendly couple, marrying their best friend and love of their life in Paris.
A Wedding Photoshoot Around Montmartre
We had the streets to ourselves in the early morning, and we started our photo session with magnificent views over Paris. Then, to some of the cute side streets of Montmartre, but beware, this is Cobblestone Country, so not easy to walk in heels! But the charm is so worth it. I love the color in Montmartre, as Paris has elegant architecture, which most people love, it doesn’t have a ton of color. But Montmartre does have some color, particularly pink and orange, with a few reds tossed in. I so enjoyed walking around the neighborhood with Tamera and Jeremy, and pointing out some interesting spots, like the vineyard in Montmartre.
Time for the Ceremony
It was now time to head back to the Montmartre overlook for the wedding ceremony! We met Aude, the officiant there and took a spot. The ceremony started out super sweet, with the soft glow of the sun warming the couple, and I had so much fun photographing them from epic angles. Aude had crafted a beautiful, meaningful ceremony, which she spoke in both English and French, and then the couple read their vows to each other in little Paris booklets they’d bought. It was so incredibly touching! I love love, and I love seeing people happy and in love, so these moments make me feel so warm and joyful. Their wedding was sealed with a kiss, and followed by a beautiful dance, overlooking all of Paris. The couple chose Lover by Taylor Swift as their special song.
Can I go where you go?
Can we always be this close forever and ever?
And ah, take me out, and take me home
You’re my, my, my, my
Lover
Watching this beautiful couple dance, after exchanging heartfelt vows, with all of Paris at our feet, well, this was pretty special!
A Visit to the Eiffel Tower
No Paris elopement would be complete without photos at the Eiffel Tower! We visited some of the most beautiful views of this romantic emblem, including the bridge of Bir Hakeim. The morning light was so gorgeous as I captured this romantic love story! These are the moments my clients treasure the rest of their lives, this magic day, just the two of them to share and this couple was really something special!
A Cute Parisian Cafe
Just before we ended this magical morning, we popped into the Palais Royal gardens and had a lot of fun–Tamera and Jeremy are so playful and loving with each other. Then, we walked to a wonderful cafe, one of the cutest cafes in all of Paris, on Rue Rivoli. Tamera and Jeremy’s love story brought them all the way from Portland, to this beautiful city, and they toasted their marriage with cappuccinos, smiles and kisses. I am incredibly thankful to them for choosing me at their Paris elopement photographer, it was an absolute joy and honor to spend the morning with them and immortalize this special day I hope they remember forever.
Capturing Your Romantic Day in Paris
If you’d love to have a romantic Paris elopement, or even other parts of France, like the enchanting region of Provence or French Riviera, I’d be happy to photograph your special day and help you plan your epic adventure in France!
